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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I need ideas on spicing up my sex life. My bf and I only use a couple of positions and sometimes I dress up in sexy clothes, but that's about it, and it's boring!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): Why doesn't he dress up as well? You can be hundreds of different sorts of sexy jocks online or even costumes like policeman, solider etc.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (10 May 2008):
 Hey sweetness,
Okays, here's India's top 5 "SPICE UP THE SEX" list:
5) Dirty Movies
What else is going to get you feeling "dirty" better than some good ol' dirty fun. Here's my hint to you - YOU pick out the DVD, not your man.
4) Vibrators
This is a good one. It's a common misconception that vibrators are only for ladies. UNTRUE! Trust me, the vibes feel good for everybody when you're in the middle of a romp. Talk about a delectable way to spice up a traditional position like missionary -- stick a vibrator right up next to your hot spot and you'll both be feeling good. Or, do the ol' reach around during doggy style and enjoy some "motion in the ocean" that way.
3) Fishnets & Heels
Sexy clothes make you feel sexy, and what is sexier than some thigh-high fishnets with some scandalously strappy heels? Girl, you'll feel sexy and risqué, and it'll reflect in your sex life.
2) Cosmo Kama Sutra
A book that you can pick up for dirt cheap at any bookstore or amazon.com or where ever. It's my favorite bedside book... comes with 77 new, fun positions to enjoy. My man and I decided that we would try every position in the book at least once, even if it looks nearly impossible. Sometimes the positions weren't perfect, but they were so much freakin' fun to try... and, we found some really, really amazing new positions as well!
1) A Silk Scarf
Your best friend. A scarf is the best accessory a ex life can have. Blindfold each other, tie each other up, tease body parts with it, use it as reigns, whatever wild thing you dream up of doing!! The hottest thing is blindfolding AND lightly tying up your man and kissing/licking/etc. all over his body. He won't know what to expect next! It puts you in control. Then switch places and have him drive you crazy. Trust me, the sex will be electric!
Most importantly, lighten up and have a blast in the bedroom. Sex is fun!! If you keep smiles on your faces, the sex will be that much better. Communicate about what feels good and whats not working...
Hope you get some good ideas. If I don't help, pick up a Cosmo and get some guidance. They always have new, fun, frisky ideas!
xx India
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reader, starfairy +, writes (10 May 2008):
 Get some flavoured lube, have fun playing with each other...Get a couple of naughty DVD's, try bondage tape (like handcuffs but pvc 'tape')...Have a browse of Ann Summers together...
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