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writes:how to know that a guy likes you but hiding it.we study in same class at same tiution.he always helps me in bad times when no one helps me.he teases me alot playfully not seriously.sometimes he tries to sit next to me but sometimes he sits very far away from me.he tries to be physically close to me like touching my arm with his arm etc. sometimes he protects me when someone tries to harm me and sometimes he himself makes fun of me. he tries to tell all his small small things to me.all these things he do with me only and he rarely talks to any girl .he stares at me and shows that he is looking outside but what will he see outside when no one is there. im totally confused .tell me some examples so that i can catch him if he likes me.and what to do to know that he likes me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Abella  +, writes (10 December 2010):
 He's not hiding his affection for you. Yes, he definitely likes you. Ask his advice on things. Do smile at him. Where do you usually have lunch? Do you bring it with you from home or buy it? Whatever options you prefer, suggest you spend lunch together. Where would you usually have lunch? In a school designated area? Or outside on a seat in the open? If he agrees, go have lunch. Don't be too talkative, offer him something from your lunch, something portable and small that you think he might like. You can point to the small tasty morsel, and suggest he try it.Nod, and smile coyly at him when he take's it from your container.Another occasion try picking the item up and pass it to him with your hand. Smile and let your hand touch his hand, but let it linger for one extra second on his hand. When you have a chance to talk, let him do most of the talking. Listen verycarefully to all he says. Try to remember all he tells you. Are there countries he would love to visit and why? Who are his heroes, and why? Ask him a question if there are things you don't understand. For anything you ask him think out your own truthful answers to the same question, if he asked you back. But if you know very little about (for instance) a particular sport then tell him you know little. Perhaps he could explain more about it, so you could learn.Does he live close enough that you could walk home from school together? Do your families know each other? Because that can offer better chances to see him. Ask him about any things he enjoys doing at weekends. Which sport is he most passionate about? Ask him to explain things about that sport that you don't know yet. Slowly get to know who he is and what makes him tick. Get him talking about what authors he likes (and what authors you like) If things go well then your friendship will evolve naturally. Take your time. Do not rush things. There is no urgency. You are only learning more about this person, just as friends.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 December 2010):
 Well, there's the obvious. If you have feelings for this guy, tell him! I think he likes you.
If you don't have the courage to tell him straight out, you could incorporate it into your teasing. If he makes fun of you or something, slip in that you want him to ask you out. Flirt with him!
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