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writes:im the worst person to live ever, i have been going out with this guy for about a week, we havent actually held hands or hugged or anything yet but today he walked over to me and tried to kiss me. I completely freaked out and leant away, he said to me that he felt like a right **** when i rejected him. but i didnt know what to do when he just walked up to me like that or what he was going to do so when he finally leant to kiss me i just...how can i make things better? of course i want to hold his hand and things but...i explained why i backed away from him dnt know if he understands though or if he will even try again. i think im going to have to make the move if i want to kiss him... im such a horrible person. i just want it to be like it used to be, the flirting and touching and just fun and heat and now i've like gone all shy and horrible i used to be soo confident with him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): You are most definitely not a horrible person! Maybe you just aren't ready to kiss this guy yet. Whether you do or don't actually want to kiss him yet, talk to him! Since you said you haven't even held hands or hugged yet perhaps you could suggest that you start out slow and work your way up to that point.
Definitely don't feel bad especially since it has only been a week and you are still young and (maybe, I don't know and don't want to judge since things have apparently changed since I was in middle school/lowerclass high school a few years ago) somewhat inexperienced.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (4 June 2010):
 He'll get over it. Tell him to harden up there are worse things than that that will happen to him over time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thanks but i still feels bad, my close friend who fancies him gave me a lecture this morning bout how much he was hurt and how i have to get my act together but i cnt help how i feel can?
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (3 June 2010):
If you are the worst person to live based on not wanting someone to kiss you then what do we call the people who rape, murder and hurt people??
When you are ready you will know and if your BF has any scruples he will understand this too.
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reader, curiousteenager23  +, writes (2 June 2010):
You're not a horrible person! You just weren't ready and you should explain that to him. Tell him that he took you by surprise and how much you DO want to kiss him. Make sure you're alone and in person when having this conversation and when you tell him how much you want to kiss him, he'll probably try again and this time you'll be ready! Hope this helps! :)
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