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writes:We've known each other for about 6 months, and I fell good and proper for him.We spoke for hours every night and even though he seemed to not make an effort to meet me, when we actually did meet up it was so fun, and i cant believe how well we got on.We haven't been offically seeing each other, and it got to the point were i asked him straight if he wants to go anywhere with it and see me more? and he said yes.we met a couple more times over the next month and i slept with him. ( a mistake i guess)It was really the best night of my life though, it felt so right and we cuddled and talked all the next day.he spoke to my once after saying we should go out again, and to text him about it and he hasnt spoke to me since. :(I texted him and he didnt text back, he never talks to me any more or replies to my texts and he sits online and doesnt speak to me.I've been well and truly used, it's broke my heart that somone who I've got to know so well can just get rid off me and not even care if we speak any more. We got on so well, I cant belive he'd treat me this bad, he seemed so nice.How can I get over it, I feel so worthless, and he's added to myelf confidence issues. I just break down and cry a lot over it. I miss him so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): hey, first off I'm so sorry about what happened. If it makes you feel any better, you're not alone in a situation like that. I met my boyfriend online, it was something I'd never done before and probably won't ever do again. He was lovely and we spoke every night, texting, on the phone or online; we started seeing each other on a regular basis and after about a month or so we were intimate with each other. We were together for 9 months and he was always talking about us having a future, i was really happy. Then about 4 weeks ago he phoned me up and ended it for no reason other than he loves me but met someone else. I was and still am heartbroken, its horrible to think you mean so much to someone, then just be thrown away. It makes you feel worthless and used, the only comfort is knowing that you wernt capable of hurting someone else like they hurt you, which instantly makes you a better person. You will be able to move forward from this and find someone else.
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