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How should I respond to him contacting me? Is he interested in something more?

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Question - (7 August 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2012)
A female New Zealand age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I had a one night stand recently with someone i've met a few times before through a mutual friend. We made our intensions clear from the beggining that it is just a one night stand and i never expect to hear from him after but he got my number from his friend and texted me after 2 weeks of silence.

i was pleasantly surprised to hear from him and we flirted a bit in our text but i have no idea what to make do of this- is he interested in getting to know me better or should i treat this as something casual? do guys get the trouble of asking for a girl's number from a friend just for fun? he never did show any obvious interest before this and i just dont know how to respond to him contacting me..help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2012):

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thanks for the reply!

i do feel attracted to him and I dont mind getting to know him better but i was wondering if a relationship could develop from a one night stand? this is my first one night stand experience. I just dont like the idea that he is only interested in sex with me.

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A female reader, oldbag United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2012):

oldbag agony auntHi

What do YOU want, more or more of the same, or nothing. Thats the question you should ask yourself.

When you know,then respond. If its more of the same then fine. If its more then dont have sex with him until you have established a relationship,if thats what he wants too.

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A female reader, Atsweet1 United States +, writes (7 August 2012):

Atsweet1 agony auntyes he wants you anyway he must or can get it you don't track down numbers for nothing unless your highly interested

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