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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:How should I go about doing this? i really like him:)? Am new at my workplace and there's this gorgeous guy there really nice. Friendly and very helpful.He talks me and flirts with me but he doesn't do that with other girls there Is just me.He stares at me a lot when he knows am not looking and when I look at him our eyes would meet me he'd look away.He seems really lovely. I wrote my number down to give it to him. But I don't know how to do it. Please help.Would he like that? I don't want to seem desperate. He likes classy girls.Am 21 and he's 25..xThankss
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2011): Check out first that he's not married or attached, then if the coast is clear suggest a coffee and take it from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2011): I agree with wiseoldman: if he likes classy girls, maybe try a less blatant tactic. When you guys are talking next time, ask him if he'd like to get a coffee or lunch some time. A natural opportunity to exchange numbers should occur!
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reader, wiseoldman +, writes (12 July 2011):
It might be easier to chat to him just before lunch asking if he knows any good restaurants, or mention a good one nearby that you've heard of so that it's natural progression for the two of you to eat there together before returning to work for the afternoon. It would also be easier to exchange numbers in that setting, when you've both fed and relaxed. Lunch is also very safe- broad daylight and a definite time limit.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (12 July 2011):
 It's not desperate at all. Just casually walk past his desk and put it on top, or you could wait until he gets up for something and leave it somewhere he'll see it.
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