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female
age
51-59,
*hellycg
writes:Well guys im back ..... where on earth do i begin, me and my ex partner (who is the cross dresser) started talking again, ending up going out for dinner, then i slept with him and we started seeing each other again, I did alot of soul searching and found that some of the problems were due to my insecurities with him - ive address that thanks to the books mars and venus on a date and men are from mars women are from venus, however, he has spent many weekends with his cross dressing friends without me, he did spend one weekend with me and had a phone call off one his friends and never bothered to tell them he was with me!! and also said he didnt want to be here wanted to be there, even so we talked we didnt argue and we got through that, however, the last week or so hes been acting really odd (as well as his parkinsons) first he wants me then he doesnt, (ive found myself being insecure and driving passed his house, when he doesnt know) hes told me hes been at his friends house and then has appreared at his house... hes also now this is disturbing put on his facebook page about a party (that i was invited to) about a swingers party being held, when i spoke to him about it, he was angry and said I WAS ACCUSING HIM and said he had posted it on there for a friends business (yeh yeh i thought) however, he came around the other day and he was really down said it wouldnt bother him if i met someone else or if he ever saw me again!!! i went to see him at his house on the evening and he said he couldnt remember saying it!!! i said the him if he went to swingers party that would be me and him finished game over, then i said rightly or wrongly , how would you feel if i got a man rang you up and you heard us having sex over the phone he got really angry and said i should go relationship over etc......... im so angry with him its ok for him to put swingers poster on his facebook , but im not allowed to say anything to him back and stand up for myself to add insult to injury he text me back and said go and do it with someone else, he will get off on it !!! then he said at least hes free to do what ive accused him of in the past , !!!! im so hurt and upset after everything weve been through and he treats me this way, i find myself looking at his facebook page, and trying to find anything out, i keep thinking hes with someone else, and i find im on here again, looking a) very foolish B) how on earth do it get closure with this guy and not take him back time and time again. thanks (sorry its longwinded) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2012): Maybe his friend is gay and have no need for you anymore. Sounds like you need to woman up and let him go for good, cut all contacts like FB, texts, e-mail, you will never let go as long as you keep snooping around on his FB. Maybe you need to realise this relationship will always have problems. The problem may not be him, sounds like you're the problem not understanding that this relationship is over.
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