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How long is too long when it comes to a break in the relationship?

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Question - (18 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend bin on a brake for the past 5 month. The reason why we on a brake is because of my mood swings. I be depress a lot. And we be fighting a lot. Now I got better and changed. And he likes the new me. Wen we were together I felt like he dint appreciate me sometomes. I felt like he only cares about his career and himself. During th brake I nevet look for him or text him or call him. He was the one who did. We still chill and see each other but not as much. He gotten better now the past month. He tells me he misses me and wants to see me. But I don't even know if I should trust him. How do I know if he was talking to other girls behind my back. Should I move on or wait a lil for him. I really don't know wat to do. My head is going to explode with soo much stress.

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2008):

What does it matter if he was talking to other girls, if you were on a break?

He texts and calls you, which shows he is interested in YOU.

You must also find out why exactly you were moody before, was it due to the relationship? If it was, is it worth salvaging?

If you think you could be happy together now, tell him you are ready for a fresh start.

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A male reader, BloodlustBakura United States +, writes (18 June 2008):

It sounds like you're not happy in this relationship, if you two have been on a break for 5 months I think it's time to move on and find someone better for you, take care!

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