A
female
age
30-35,
*lliehoff
writes:my best guy friend and i got really drunk last weekend,im fifteen and he's sixteen,so to make a long story short i gave him a blowjob,it was my first time giving one and his first time recieving one.Now its really awkward between us,how does our friendship go back to being normal without all this awkwardness???
View related questions:
blow-job, drunk Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Alliehoff +, writes (19 September 2007):
Alliehoff is verified as being by the original poster of the question well,the thing is that the next morning when we woke up in my bed he said lets be friends with benefits.Which you know is fine with me because we are young and i feel comfortable with him,and we walked to work together(we have the same job)so its not like we havent talked at all.and he was really excited,and kept saying how he wants to do stuff again.(p.s.I realized that night how strong guys really are)but yesterday i called him on the phone just to say hi,and he said he wants our friendship to go back to normal,before we did that stuff,but he still wants to come over again this weekend and hang out.Now i just feel really used,but i think that maybe if we do it again it wont be awkward anymore.I have nobody to talk to about this,so i need somones advise!!!
A
female
reader, leanne.od  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 it is illegal for you to be drinking at 15 and there are reasons for it!! alcohol leads you to do things which you wouldn't normally do in everyday circumstances. what if you had gone further than giving him head? its dangerous and you are too young to want to be growing up so fast, but society encourages it now. the awkwardness is there because you probably don't even remember what it was like and neither does he. it was what we call a drunken fumble but at your age you should be drinking cola or lemonade not vodka or cidar. basically you need to speak to him, tell him you think it was a mistake and you were just curious about it, your young enough to use that excuse, you were experimenting.but if you do continue to drink, don't get paraletic again to an extent where you don't know why you did something.good luck
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): who says it has to go back to normal? you just don't like him, he don't like you? it's all about talking to him, asking him "hey you want to do that again?". Or "hey, i think i'm going to date that guy, what do you think?" get his reaction somehow. it's awkward because there are unsaid things, that's my take on it.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): The simple answer is that it wont go back to normal hun and without sounding patronising your age wont help. You have engaged in a sexual experience with this lad at a time in your lives when things like that are embarrassing and new, all I can say is try and talk to him about it and see how he feels about remaining friends.Be prepared for him to brag and tell other people.
...............................
|
