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writes:Hey,How do you know if a guy is using you? Like i know this really hot guy, hes very confident, hes the lead singer in a local band. Hes always going around introducing me as his girlfriend! I he trying to tell me something?? I know he likes me, but I have been told by many he is a player, he gets around alot. He keeps asking for my no., or msn, or bebo etc, but i keep changing subject. Iam afraid to have a proper conversation, in case I bore him off!! What should I do?? And again, how do you know then boys are using you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): I would say that you would know if the guy is using you if he never says stuff like I love you etc.
I would give him your number and msn chat and get to know him more. And then you can see if you got connection going, if so. See if he takes you out on a date.
If he does he wont be using you if not then he might just want to get you into bed
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionRight, ok. That helps a bit!! emmm thanks anyway
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reader, beachbabe  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 He isn't using you if he introduces you as his gf, if he ask you out to be is girlfriend he isnt using you.
but also he could just be showing off around calling every cute girl his gf..
& it sounds like you dont really know him.. you need to get in contact with him on the phone, aim..ect
get to know him 1st before your heart gets broken..
good luck xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): You are suited when you are happy. If you start to get frustrated or irritable often then things just aren't working and it doesn't need to be too questioned. Just that you both aren't suited and also things are going on. To answer your question, you haven't gone far enough into the relationship. People have said he is a player, and it's up to you to take that risk. A player also means, if in a committed relationship like marriage or with kids, he wont stick around long, onto 4 marriages maybe. I think you are right. You risk hurting your heart if you get any more involved
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): well if he is introducing you as his gf and ye arent that is a bit weird.
Why not give him your number and go on a date , if you guys dont have a genuinely fun time and I mean if you dont enjoy spending time with him then its not going to work.
As for being used, Im assuming you mean sex, well if your having sex because you like him and care about him and you think he feels the same then you arent being used, if your having sex because you want him to like you, care about you and you dont think he does now, well then you are being used.
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