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How do you 'get off' with somebody?

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Question - (18 February 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I just wanna know, how do you "get off" with someone, I get really nervous, and I dunno what to do or how to make a move :( Please help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009):

Well At the time your heart will be pumping like madd because yhur so nervous buh thts natural at this point.

just lean forward and go wif the flow if yhu get me sumtymes it will go wrong at if you think you not reddi thn just sayy they hav got to belive in trust.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007):

'Getting off with' means kissing with open mouths using tongues to stimulate each others mouths.

I remember I was shocked at the idea when I first did it but you enjoy it very quickly afterwards!

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A female reader, stacey.m06 United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

'getting off' is a phrase used for different things. some adults would say gettin off with some1 wud be having sex with them, but i think ur on about kissing them. i know ppl say this all the time but it will come naturally even though you probably wont believe them but it is true. when your with someone you feel comfortable with then just close your eyes and lean forward and youl surprise yourself at how naturally it happens

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A female reader, stacey.m06 United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2007):

'getting off' is a phrase used for different things. some adults would say gettin off with some1 wud be having sex with them, but i think ur on about kissing them. i know ppl say this all the time but it will come naturally even though you probably wont believe them but it is true. when your with someone you feel comfortable with then just close your eyes and lean forward and youl surprise yourself at how naturally it happens

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A female reader, Mistiwood Switzerland +, writes (18 February 2007):

Just take it easy, best of all be yourself and if and when you find that you start getting on with someone then you can consider asking them out. You are still young and have lots of time. If you just try to get off with someone you will come across as a sleaze to the girls and that is not attractive, surely you would rather be known as the nice guy rather than the gerk. Just remember, it will happen when the time is right.

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