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How do you 'get off' with somebody?

Q.   I just wanna know, how do you "get off" with someone, I get really nervous, and I dunno what to do or how to make a move :( Please help!...

A.   18 February 2007: Just take it easy, best of all be yourself and if and when you find that you start getting on with someone then you can consider asking them out. You are still young and have lots of time. If you just try to get off with someone you will come ... (read in full...)

So, girls--is anal sex pleasurable for the female? Is there a lot of pain?

Q.   So, um, girls...is anal sex any fun? I am considering having anal sex with my boyfriend sometime in future, depending on whether or not he can get me drunk enough to do it. I'd like to know if the female experiences any pleasure - I've heard tha...

A.   18 February 2007: if you are asking if it hurts or not then you are not ready to do it. yes it hurts but only if one, you are not relaxed enough and two if you do not use lubrication. So if you are getting tensed up about it then it will hurt, so my advice to you ... (read in full...)

I am very insecure about my bf's past love relationships! Is this the norm..do others feel this way?

Q.   i'm insecure over my b/f's past and i get jealous thinking about girls he spent time with, slept with, had fun with..I have been with him for almost 2 years and i still get like this..he has given me cards that in it have written things such as ...

A.   18 February 2007: hang on! Hold your horses! This guy is with YOU, not them, if they had been right for him then he would still be with them and not you. You need to get rid of these feelings as they are negative emotions and they will not only eat at you but will ... (read in full...)

I believe I still love him, I'm just not IN love with him any more.

Q.   Do I still love him? My husband was in a severe depression for the last 5 years. Then last May I told him I wanted to separate and he promised he would change back to the man I married. He has been trying severely and doing everything I asked, ...

A.   18 February 2007: oh dear, life is too short to be with someone just because! You see we are always changing and marriages have to be worked at, the problem arises when one does all the work and the other sits back and expects it to happen. Then the problems come ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my bf I lied to him about liking other guys?

Q.   I have a couple things to ask... ok well, I LOVE my boyfriend. We've been "going out" (not counting all of our break-ups) 2 years. everynight we talk on the phone and sometimes get into fights about me liking other people. I've lied to him about no...

A.   18 February 2007: oh dear, in what rule book is it not allowed to like someone else?! No one can control someone else, a relationship should be built on trust and mutual respect, if you like someone else does not mean you are going to go off with them, he is ... (read in full...)

Going out of my mind over my workmate!

Q.   I am totally going out of my mind for this guy i work with, who is 30. I have been working there since the summer and am not a permanent member of staff. At first i thought he diden't like me, then something happened, he started acting differently ...

A.   18 February 2007: sounds to me as though he does like you after all he is offering to take you to the bus stop, that is your cue to jump, only you aren't jumping. The key to success is to communicate. No doubt you have either e-mail or sms messaging, so be honest ... (read in full...)

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