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writes:Me and my gf have been going out for 4 months now offically but we've liked each other for years. We've been best friends most of our lives and are completely comfortable with each other and talking about personal thing. We are both virgins and have decided we are both ready for sex. She knows that it will hurt, ive just told her to relax as shes affraid she'll be to tensed up. Is there anyways i can help her relax more because i don't like the fact that it'll be me hurting her but at the same time i really want to do this. I know she does too,she knows that we can stop if she doesn't like it and that i n won't pressire her into anything. So basically can you give me tips on how to relax her?
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reader, mum2be +, writes (19 February 2007):
If you are both ready, then she'll know what to do. It would help to relax her if you spoke to her and take things slowly. Try a bit of nice music, candles and definately go for the foreplay as this will loosen her up and help with both of your nerves.
It will hurt... but the pain does not last long, and if you are both ready, it will be fine.
All the best!!!
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reader, cd206 +, writes (18 February 2007):
 The best things you can do is talk to her openly and find out if it's only the pain that worries her or if there's something else. Make sure you both have plans regarding contraception and to make sure she's relaxed before you penetrate her make sure she is turned on and well lubricated because then it won't hurt half as much.
CD
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