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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Your all probably going 2 think im sad! But ive been with my boy a while now and we see each other evryday. Yesterday he went away to work for 2 weeks and i just feel like i can't cope! Im trying to fill my time and have made plans. I just cannot take my mind off him, im so scared he will find someone else, or even worse get used 2 life without me and prefer it. How do people keep their long distance realtionships going? Please help me i feel so lonely and insecure :o(
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (11 May 2009):
 woa calm hun. you should try being in a relationship were you only get to see each other for 4 weeks a year. all that has happened is a change to your life it is no bigger a deal than what you make it. you choose to worry and over react to this situation you need to calm down and tell him some of your fears and how you feel just tell him that you feel uneasy as this has changed and just wondered if he felt the same. as they say sometimes distance makes the heart grow fonder. try to relax talk to a close friend and tell her how you feel and do different things to try and make yourself feel better you cannot go crazy over this as it may push him away you just need to calm down and talk about it a little with your partner say how you miss him and which things hadnt of changed but were still together and strong. just dont center your life around him all the time when he is their try and keep a routine going that when he is their he can join or somethign you can do when he is doing his own time this way it wont be as hard each time he leaves. nothing worse than having no routine and winging it. hope this has helped good luck and relax it will be fine x
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