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How do I talk about new things to try?

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Question - (24 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone I'm 19 and my boyfriend and I have engaged in everything besides the obvious. One of which is sex and we are waiting for the right time. The other one was the one I had a question about. Is there a specific name for when the guys slides his penis in between the breasts? Do guys like it? How does it feel when they do it? Is is a good feeling? Also, my boyfriend and I are very open but I am shy about talking about it. How do I go about mentioning about a new thing to try out? He is always asking if I have ideas. haha

Thanks for any advice men and women!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010):

I believe it is called "French sex".

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010):

OMG yes a titjob makes me shoot a lot lol...sit him down on a chair, get on ur knees, oil them up (not too much or u lose ur grip), and push them together with your hands while u watch him slide it in between them, then rub up and down and watch lol.Girls like this with the right lube, the friction can hurt, but the bigger the boobs the better as it gives you more to work with.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (24 September 2010):

dirtball agony auntIs there a name for what you described?

In porn it's called "tittyfucking." Sorry for the curse word, but I don't know any other names for it.

Do guys like it?

Yup. Well, I can't speak for all guys, but I know that I sure as hell do!

How does it feel? Is it a good feeling?

Well, I can't imagine it feels that great for the girl, but for guys it feels great. How to describe it. It's like having your penis sandwiched between two flesh balloons. They are soft and firm at the same time. It's warm. Think about it being like a hand job but with something softer. I don't know, it's tough to explain, but it feels good.

One thing to keep in mind is that you need lubrication for it to be as enjoyable as it should be. If you try this on dry skin it can actually hurt. The friction won't feel good. I'd recommend some massage oil or maybe some lotion. If you want some tips, feel free to PM me.

How do you go about mentioning new things to try out?

Just do it. Start small until you get more comfortable. For example, try giving him some directions the next time he is going down on you or fingering you. Get yourself more comfortable talking about sex stuff when you're in the moment. But really, if you think about it, you're comfortable enough with eachother to see eachother naked and play with eachother naughty parts. Talking about it should be no different. You are already super comfortable around eachother.

I've found that the best sex partners are the ones who can open up and tell me what they like and want. They are also open to getting guidance from me. If you want to try something, tell him. He won't get scared, more likely it will turn him on.

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A male reader, serenity80 United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2010):

The next time he has his dick out, say to him "hey come rub your cock in between my tits" and say it in a dirty way, he'll love it.

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