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writes:i'm nearly fifteen, and my boyfriends almost sixteen, i'm pretty mature for my age and so is he. i love him to pieces and love being with him. he knows i'm not ready for sex, and he respects that about me, as i've been brought up to know right from wrong and i want my first time to be special no matter who it's with.he's my first boyfriend and we've only been going out for a couple of month, but i've known him sinse i was about 3, as he went to my primary so i know him probably better than anyone. All we ever seem to do is talk, and laugh and just walk around together, we have the odd kiss but we don't really seem to get alot of privacy at my house[because of the family], but he's an only child so thats all we have when were at his.i was wondering, as i'm not really experienced when it comes to boys, or anything like that. how to have abit of fun? without it leading onto full on sex? he would never try to take advantage of me and i really do trust him, i'm not abit nervous but when i think of it being with him; i'm ot anyhmore, but how do i take lead and play around without being too hasty and leading him on too far? and what sort of things would you reccomend?any advice on anthing to do with this would be so helpful.thanks x
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reader, bobalu  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Hey one thing that is fun but doesn't lead on to anything like sex is to wrestle =), u have fun while getting physical. Then wen u guys are tired just lay down next to each other and like just look at each other and hug him. Awwwww so cute hahahahahaha ^_^. Well I hope I helped u, sorry if I didn't =(
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Hey,
Just do whatever you feel comfortable with but talk to him about it beforehand so he doesnt think you're gonna have sex with him then feel a bit teased when it doesnt happen.
I'm so glad you're mature enough to wait and want your first time to be special and even gladder your boyfriend respects that and isnt putting on pressure on you. He sounds great! So i'm sure you can talk to him about it and tell him you wanna do some things, just not everything.
Take care
Brooke
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Theres plenty of stuff you can do without going the whole way! Just make sure he knows not to expect that. But as you say, youre still quite young so dont rush anything and take as much time as you need :)
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