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Paranoia, delusion, intuition or gut feeling?

Q.   Hi, Am I being paranoid, my intuition or gut feeling...my girlfriend love each other a lot and intend to get married one day, but I had this bad thought that something will break us up the other day that we will end up with different people...

A.   22 September 2009: yo just chill ok, just give her some extra attention, take her out more, show her the guy she fell in love with and im pretty sure things will turn out ok... (read in full...)

My gf wants me to plan sex games, I havent a clue what to do?

Q.   Hi I'm 17 and my girlfriend is coming round tomorrow, we'll be having sex but she's asked me to plan something for us to do, she didn't say any apart from suggesting maybe making a game but any other ideas are open too. Can anyone help me t...

A.   29 April 2008: Hahahaha u guys could get a little kinky if u guys want. Like get some ropes or something to tie her up with. Tie her arms to the bed and feet to the bed and take advantage of her XP only if she wants. Wait yeah do that. Get a little rough with her, ... (read in full...)

This is the BEST and WORST situation EVER!!

Q.   Ok, last year my dad met a woman...She is a really nice woman and I have no problem whatsoever with her. And they moved in with is. She has a daughter 1 year younger than me, and she is pretty much drop dead gorgeous. My dad and her mom are not ...

A.   26 April 2008: If ur pretty sure that she likes u back, u should tell her how u feel, but make sure she knows it must remain a secret ok make sure of that... (read in full...)

Are we ready to lose our virginity?

Q.   Well me and my b/f are always conversing. Right...we've had so much together and were thinking about losing both of our virginty together. I really think i love him to go all the way with him. He always tells me he's not going to rush me into doing ...

A.   25 April 2008: My opinion is if u have second thoughts about it maybe u should wait alittle while before u start having sex. There's nothing wrong with just goin to 2nd base. That's peefectly fine. If u guys want maybe u guys can have oral, hey just an opinion u ... (read in full...)

She didn't seem to care when I told her I've been grounded, and wont be able to see her as much. Why?

Q.   I told my g/f that I'm grounded till the end of the school year, and I'm only going be able to see her at school. She just stood there and didn't say anything. It looks like she doesn't even care =(. I need help =( please I don't think she even care...

A.   25 April 2008: I don't know wat to do =(... (read in full...)

She didn't seem to care when I told her I've been grounded, and wont be able to see her as much. Why?

Q.   I told my g/f that I'm grounded till the end of the school year, and I'm only going be able to see her at school. She just stood there and didn't say anything. It looks like she doesn't even care =(. I need help =( please I don't think she even care...

A.   25 April 2008: Bobalu... (read in full...)

Are all relationships this boring when there's more time?

Q.   Hi, help please. I'm married to a really nice man. Up until now he has worked really long shifts and we only got to see each other for a very short time every day, (just about half an hour) and then he had one day a week off, which was a really ...

A.   25 April 2008: Try to start and having alittle fun with him, like play around with him. Pinch his butt everynow and then. From my experience guys talk way more wen they are happy, so yeah try to get him in a good mood. Make him feel sexy hahahaha XP, I'm serious ... (read in full...)

I'm one of his best friends, and yet he's ignoring me. What is going on? I'm so confused.

Q.   i am really confused my friends being really wierd with me. one miniute he saying. o louise (thats me) your like my best mate. certainly one of them... the neXt miniute he bloking me on Msn with no reason...telling me he cant teXt me because ...

A.   25 April 2008: Ok next time u see him walking just run up to him and grab his arm and pull him somewhere u guys can be alone and don't let go of him!!!!!!!! And look into his eyes and ask him nicely wats going on, why are u doing this to me, is there something ... (read in full...)

How do I take lead and play around without being too hasty and leading him on too far? I'm 15.

Q.   i'm nearly fifteen, and my boyfriends almost sixteen, i'm pretty mature for my age and so is he. i love him to pieces and love being with him. he knows i'm not ready for sex, and he respects that about me, as i've been brought up to know right from ...

A.   25 April 2008: Hey one thing that is fun but doesn't lead on to anything like sex is to wrestle =), u have fun while getting physical. Then wen u guys are tired just lay down next to each other and like just look at each other and hug him. Awwwww so cute ... (read in full...)

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