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writes: I was keeping the message in my inbox on myspace from my ex in case i would ever need to report him for stalking, and today i noticed he changed his profile picture to one with 2 girls kissing him. So, stupidly I checked out his page and in almost all the pictures girls are hanging on him and all his captions say how blondes are so much fun, blah, blah, blah. I'm blonde, and personally I think I'm cuter than them. Last week he emailed me saying how he missed me and how he was on vacation in Florida just to let me know-though I never responded and have long ago changed my number and blocked him from my myspace because he won't leave me alone after I have asked him so many times. I know it's over, and I'm glad I got away because he was very emotionally abusive and disrespectful, and I didn't cry looking at the pictures, but what do I do? How do I stay strong when I feel like he messed up my life and no one knows the real him?! It's driving me crazy! I deleted his messages b/c I figure if he ever stalks me in person, then I have reason to go to the police. I guess I just need to let go and move on, which I have been doing. It just seems like he creeps into my head and onto my computer and I can't handle it! I guess what I want to know is if other people have gone through similar situations, and how do they respond?
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reader, TattooedStacy  +, writes (16 March 2008):
This is another, easier said than done case. You had a history with this guy, whiether it was good or bad. You are and will be emotionally attached to him for a while. The best opition is to ignore him. Tell him to leave you alone.
I agree with Eve, you're looking for him. So stop.
Feel free to message me for insite, I have had a relationship like this before and could probably help out alot....
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 Forgive him and bless him.
You can let him go after you do that .
You can then rebuilt your life and stop thinking or remind you of him.
You will soon forget him and enjoy your new life.
Don't keep on blaming him for it does not serve any purpose
other than to make you hate him or remind you of him.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 This guy isn't worth your attention, he's keeping the door open for you, you did right to ignore him. The best thing you can do is NOT look at his myspace any more or anthing else he's part of, you are only feeding yourself with thoughts of him doing this. Block him from contacting you through myspace, your email (change it if you have to) and your phone. Keep the email he sent you hidden away in a folder out of eyes reach in case you should ever need it and get on with your life and let the others find out for themselves what he's like, that's not your problem!
He isn't creeping onto your computer, you're searching for him, keeping an eye on him!!!! If you totally block him then he can't get in touch with you any more! Problem solved.
~Eve~
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