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writes:Me and my boyfriend broke up over six months back, we have stayed in contact and have met up a couple of times since and got on really well. He has now moved away to do a course for a year. I think this is the main reason why he broke up with me because he said he couldn't see a future, but he really cares about me. I don't understand why he won't give us a second chance, cus I know we could get back what we had and be happy. He knows the way I feel about him, well through text messages anyway. Been texting for a while now, but think they have made things more confused between us cus you don't know what manner and tone things are said in. Whether I have mentioned us, he won't reply or say how he feels, but he will reply when I ask general qustions. I really want us to have a future, how can I show him that we could be good again? how do I show him how much I want him in my life without looking desperate? That we could have a future?. He has said that when he finishes his course he thinks he won't come back to live round here again, is he telling me to give up?. I know he cares because why else would he meet me? I just want another chance to show him we can be so happy. He never gave me resaons for breaking up except that he wasn't happy anymore and didn't see a future. Please help, I do really love him and can't stop thinking about him even through god I have tried, but just makes things worse. Think its best to stop the texting though, not good idea is it?.
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reader, sadeyes +, writes (13 April 2008):
Hi
Just broken up with b/f myself and trying to do the friends thing as well,but it is hard,he wants to be friends as in lets see each other all the time friends,I thought i was happy with this,but i realise that i want more than that.As tempting as it is to be friends,it really just prolongs the agony and doesnt let you move on,so do what i amgoing and say no to friends he either wants you or he doesnt and if he comes back to you then it is meant to be
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reader, mattie90  +, writes (12 April 2008):
 there are somethings you can do without looking desperate tell him that you feel very strong about your feelings and ask him how he feels about the situation between you two if he says we should just keep in contact once in awhile i would just take it and leave it i know thats not what you want to hear but if you love something you got to let it go and if this person loves you just as much they will come back to you he will realise what he lost and will want it back hope this helps
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