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My mom has been really snappy with me!

Q.   Hi!I have a big problem.Well my mum has got really snappy at me and I don't know y!Ur mum is meant 2 b ur best friend isn't she not ur worst enemy!It's all because there woz a nasty smell in my room under my bed then we moved my bed and found that ...

A.   17 April 2007: Your at a difficult age, when I was at early teen age my mom was far from my best friend trust me! She read my personal diary and everything but i later learned that its just cuz she cares so much. When parents ( moms especially) feel that they cant ... (read in full...)

Am I fat? I have bigger measurements than my friends and its bothers me!

Q.   Am I fat? I'm 5'7''. 14 years old and.. Bust-33 Waist-27 1/2 Hips- 39 Thigh- 31 My friends, who look worse than me, have much smaller measurements, and it's getting me down. Please let me know, and be honest! x...

A.   17 April 2007: Everyone carried weight in different places and even in different ways; for example I weigh more than my older sister but am thinner/ a smaller size than her because my weight is mainly muscle weight.From your measurements, I dont envision you as ... (read in full...)

Call for new moderators to help out on the site!

Q.   Hiya, I'm looking for a couple of new moderators to help out with the approval of questions and answers. If you're a site "regular", have some time spare and would like to help out, send me a private message. Thanks! Andrew (site guy...

A.   13 April 2007: Hi Andrew, Id love to help if our stil looking?... (read in full...)

Im married, but I cant get this guy out of my head! Im suffering, arent crushes suppoes to feel good!

Q.   I have an interest in a person and can't get my mind off of him. I can't see him very often, we're both married, it's a difficult situation, but it's driving me crazy. I don't want to say anything to him...but I do think it's reciprocated. I am ...

A.   13 April 2007: Think of the connotations of the word 'crush'- if u crush a flowerdoesn't it make it die? if it was supposed to feel good it would be called a "crush"... (read in full...)

Do I cut his cell phone off or let him keep paying for it?

Q.   when me and my ex boyfriend were together-i added him a cell phone line to my account.we broke up 2 months later.he pays his part of the bill on time every month still like he sussposed to. the thing is i just found out that he cheated on me with ...

A.   28 February 2007: the right and moral thing to do would be to let him keep paying his bill and let him keep the rental as long as he keeps up with payments. after all u2 arent together anymore sowhat he's done is nothing to do with u. howwwwwwever, I would probably ... (read in full...)

Im 14 but have these stetchmarks, does anyone know how to fade them ?

Q.   hi i am only 14 and i have stratchmarks onm stomace on the top back of my arms on my back and behind my knees. i darednt wear strappy tops because of tem. does any one know how to fade them. if i lost weight would the go or are they here forever . ...

A.   17 June 2006: hi- i agree with the others they will eventually fade- and as chirpy chicken said cocoa butter cream is good! so is vitmain e cream!! good luck... (read in full...)

How do I ride my boyfriend, without actually having sex?

Q.   Hi there, I'm a little unsure of something. Me and my b/f have not have sex but have come very close to it. We have decided to as soon as we get some time alone, but until then I just want to know how to ride/straddle him without inserting his peni...

A.   7 June 2006: hi thanx 4 al ur help uv been great! im 17 btw! and by alone i meant were never alone 4 long enough- like a couple of hours max but we want 2 spend the hole day alone together? but thanx spesh 2 hannieseds!! great help!!... (read in full...)

How do I ride my boyfriend, without actually having sex?

Q.   Hi there, I'm a little unsure of something. Me and my b/f have not have sex but have come very close to it. We have decided to as soon as we get some time alone, but until then I just want to know how to ride/straddle him without inserting his peni...

A.   7 June 2006: hi thanx 4 al ur help uv been great! im 17 btw! and by alone i meant were never alone 4 long enough- like a couple of hours max but we want 2 spend the hole day alone together? but thanx spesh 2 hannieseds!! great help!!... (read in full...)

How can I cope with a break-up?

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for about 12 years and he has just split up with me i feel like my life has just ended help!!!!...

A.   3 June 2006: hi there! im sorry honey...this is just hard!!right now theres nothing anyone can say or do that will make this go away or even lessen the plain!du u know y he broke up with u? if not ask him!!closure is good at least ul know tyhe reason...apart ... (read in full...)

I've been his wife for 5 years! So why does he still have excess baggage about his ex-wife!

Q.   I've been with my husband for 5 years we had alot of problems with his ex interfering when i ride with him to get his kids occasionally (once every few months or so ) and he goes every other weekend he gets real nervous and makes comments like ...

A.   29 May 2006: hi there- i wouldnt go rushng down his throat like trhat maybe the problem is HER!!maybe he tells u she doesnt come out 2stop the chance of rivalry or jealousy (lets face it its natural) over something small that u might have a problem with? or ... (read in full...)

I want a relationship with her-so how do I get close enough to her to begin building the trust?

Q.   This is kind of tricky so please help me. I am starting to like this girl that i talk to quite a bit now online. I have only seen her twice in person because i used to fancy her cousin but i don't see her anymore, but i told her i still like her ...

A.   29 May 2006: just ask herrr!!!!if u talk 2 her alot online begin bi asking 4 her mobi number if she has 1...if not jus sey are u busy on sat? wna catch a movie? go 2 the funfair? enforce that it is just "as m8s!!" if ur really woried that shel decline show that ... (read in full...)

Helping him get over an ex, but now his not communicating, is he just using me?

Q.   My mind feels scrambled!!!. I have been helping my male friend get over breaking-up with his ex but have found myself falling for him. I think he feels he same way about me. We have enjoyed cuddling each other very much but this has recently ...

A.   29 May 2006: the best thing 2 do is ASSSKK HIM!!itl b a litle awkward bt i sugest u tel him how u feel- maybe hes 2 shy 2 come out and say it and needs u2 initiate the conversation when it comes 2 that topic.however do let him know that ur friendship is the most ... (read in full...)

Three in a bed, but I don't want to!

Q.   I'm 26, my boyfriend is 29, and he wants us to have a threesome with me and another man. I told him no, and said it would cause harm to our relationship, but he still wants it to happen. I asked him why he wants to do this - and he refused to s...

A.   26 May 2006: hi there! firstli u need 2 ask yourself if theres a defined reason y u dont want that 2 hapen? are u against it or is there an underlying issue such as uncertainity about ur b/fs sexuality or even uncertainity that ul enjoy it?if ur 100% against it ... (read in full...)

We got into a big fight and I lost her....what can I do?

Q.   i have recently split with my gf of 1 year and 4months i love her so much and i dont wanna lose her. we had an arguement and i hit her and i told her i was sorry and that i wont do it again i want help so i can get her back she told me she loves me ...

A.   25 May 2006: Hi there! wen u care about someone u want everything 2 b perfect but sometimes u can lose ur temper. mens abuse towards women is a big deal and so ur gf id obviously scaredt that u may do it again- not because of the pain but because of the betrayl ... (read in full...)

A girl is saying she did stuff with my boyfriend, what should I do?

Q.   please help me i dont no if my boy freind has cheated on me the girl is going round saying she has done somthink with him and i realy dont wana lose him ????...

A.   25 May 2006: hiya! the best thing 2 do is privately and calmly ask your boyfriend. if u trust him- tell him that u do but u just want to be sure. dont confront him in an angry way or infront of his firends he will just get angry. if u do beleive the rumours ... (read in full...)

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