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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am currently in my first serious relationship in a while and have had to acknowledge to myself that I am completely addicted to it. Time spent away due to holidays etc. is completely torture and I find myself sobbing at the thought of my boyfriend and I being parted for the next two weeks. I want to spend as much time with him as possible but then I have had my heartbroken before and always look at my relationships with a pessamistic approach. I am constantly thinking that he doesnt love me as much as I love him and I want to stop and get a grip of myself but I cant. I have a constant lump in my throat and breaking out in coldsores because of how stressed I let it make me. I really feel I need help as I am crying myself to sleep too often. Could I please have advice on how to sort my feelings out and not feel so down?
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reader, Kenj +, writes (2 August 2010):
 Your going through the infactuation stage it will get better but you have to give it time. If he is really the one for you then you will have a lifetime to spend together so 2 weeks really is not a big deal.
He will come to his own conclusion if he truly has love for you but again its going to take time.
Theres nothing wrong with thinking of someone and missing them but dont let it run your life. Will it be possible to call or email him while he is away? If so do that, but not every hour, space it out to 1 contact every day or 2 days.
Try going for a walk and use the time to relax while he is away.
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