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How do I make this older guy stop following me around? He doesn't know me, but I know who he is. He creeps me out.

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Question - (26 December 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:


erm well theres this guys who older like in his the 30's or late 20's not really sure how old he is

but really hes been following me around when ever he see's me and just stares like seriously

its kinda staring to creep me out

i don't think he actually knows me but i know him, because he's had a baby with my bestfriends cousin's when she was around my age ( the baby like 3 now )

Anyhow how do i tell him to like cut it out he dosent know me so i dnt want to approach him or anything

p.s he is really i mean seriously hot like for real

i just wanted to clarify that am not hes he is fit because he is older but he is actually an attractive man and am slowly kinda finding it hard not to stare back to be honest that why i want to cut it out !

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (28 December 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntif he creeps you out that badly and you don't feel you can tell an adult then you tell him that if he does not stop you will report him to the police as a stalker...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011):

lifeinsonnetform thanks i don't think i can tell any older person me and my parents don't really have an open relationship but i wiil take your advice about ingoring him and thank you x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011):

You need to tell someone about this if you haven't done so already. Your parents, a relative, a teacher, perhaps? I know you're not too far away from being a legal adult yourself, but this man sounds like a predator. He had a baby with another girl when she was around your age? Yes, you're above the age of consent, but still. I get the impression that this is the sort of man who grooms young women for sex. It doesn't matter how attractive he his, his intentions aren't honest.

I think the best thing you can do is to not respond at all. Don't look at him, don't apporach him, don't speak to him. Follow your gut, sweetie. If his attention is begninng to creep you out, there's a reason for it. This person is a stranger to you, and his behaviour is way too stalkerish. You must let a trusted older person know what's going on. I don't mean to frighten you - I'm not saying you're in danger or anything! But it's better to be safe than sorry. Good luck and take care x

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