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female
age
30-35,
*oner
writes:Well, im 'dating' a guy 12 years older then myself, he has been divorced for 2 years now although his ex wife is still not out of his system. Maybe times he would talk about her and tell me things of her when we are places they were together. Every now and then i dream of her and sometimes it gets a bit much for me. I really do like him and really would love to be with him. He always says im his princess and im really important to him, and just when i finally think things are working out for us something of her will pop up. Like i went away with him one weekend to motorbike racing and in reception at the hotel he pulled a wedding photo out of his wallet, i dont think he knows i saw it, although it really cut deep. Then everything went back to normal and we done our normal hanging out and going for supper and movies i soon forgot about her. Then one night he just all quiet, he never spoke to me for awhile, his ex wife sent him a sms that she wanted to come back to south africa to reopen her business, and yes he did reply. Then the other day a remind come up on his cellphone 'sweetheart's birthday'. They were married for two years she left him for another man, he has said that that chapter has closed in his life, although it does not seem like it, how can i make him forget about his ex wife and show him that i am here, and that i do care about him and that he does mean the world to me. Is there anything i can do?
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reader, loner +, writes (29 December 2008):
loner is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thats not exactly the kind of answer i was hoping for, although not everything can always be my way. Thank you so much, i will talk to him today and ask him a few questions then get back to you, maybe there lays a small bit of hope somewhere. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): I don't think he is over her. She will haunt your relationship forever. You can't make him forget. All you can do is free him to go try to get back with her and pray that if he is meant to be with you, he will come back- without the ghost....
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