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writes:i had a chance to be intimate with my wife's sister about 2years ago, and i didn't, now i am regretful that i didn't. i am regretful because i am overwhelmly in love with her. i think about her everyday. i pray and ask God to make a way that He will some how make a way for us to begin a relationship that will lead to marriage. i would give anything for her to be my wife. i love her with all my heart. i wish somehow that it would happen. i just don't know how to make it happen. Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): "...what a screwed up life." my darling 50 something man, you have screwed it up, BIG TIME. instead of trying to get into your wifes sisters panties, try being a man and working on your marriage. no wonder your wife is not happy, which wife would want her hb chasing after her sister?? instead of foucsing on the sis in law, prioritise your wife and marriage. seems like if you do not change your behaviour you will end up ALONE in your golden years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): "...what a screwed up life." my darling 50 something man, you have screwed it up, BIG TIME. instead of trying to get into your wofes sisters panties, try being a man and working on your marriage. no wonder your wife is not happy, which wife would want her hb chasing after her sister?? instead of foucsing on the sis in law, prioritise yoyr wife and marriage. seems like if you do not change your behaviour you will end up ALONE in your golden years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): my wife and i are in an unhappy marriage that we can't afford to get out of. there no intimacy. great huh...what a screwed up life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): where does your wife fit in in this equation?
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reader, NumberSix  +, writes (13 October 2009):
Here's a tip for: Don't.
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reader, q1605 +, writes (10 October 2009):
 Then ...if your sister- law-feels the same way go for it. Why do you guys even ask? You say .."I am in love and my life will be an empty shell until I make something happen with my sister-in-law. Go make it happen. You're 50! You don't need our permission to do a thing.
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reader, marriedlady + ♥, writes (10 October 2009):
 im with grimm on this one. Also...I think this is at least the third time this question has been asked, by a poster in your same age bracket. I assume you havent gotten the answer you were looking for...and i talked to God this morning myself and he says the rules havent changed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): I agree, if you start hearing voices, go check yourself into the nearest lockdown. Seriously, you are married (to this woman's sister no less). So your wife's very own sister was willing to screw you? Nice gal... presumably this would cause her sister unbelievable PAIN (hopefully you as well)...You need a reality check, and need to be getting some professional advice- your wife needs to get a good attorney.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): i understand how people would react reading this. but i know in my heart of hearts that it is not lust, or some type of midlife crisis. it is love. i truly love her with all of my heart. i love just being with her. she brings joy to my empty life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2009): I for one am happy you didn't cheat. It shows respect, both for your wife, yourself, and her sister. If you want to be with her sister, then you should get a divorce from your wife first. Always end one relationship before you start another. And then after some time, start to date the sister.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (10 October 2009):
 Does your wife know how you feel about her sister? I think it's just lust or some kind of mid-life, "paths never taken" sort of thing. Your best bet would be to ask God to REMOVE these feelings of lust for the sister, and ask him to help you fall back in love with your wife.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (10 October 2009):
Does your wife know how you feel about her sister? I think it's just lust or some kind of mid-life, "paths never taken" sort of thing. Your best bet would be to ask God to REMOVE these feelings of lust for the sister, and ask him to help you fall back in love with your wife.
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reader, Confuzzled012 +, writes (10 October 2009):
 You seriously pray to god to help you break one of the ten commandment? You are a whole new level of ignorant and just plain mean. I don't see a bit of remorse in your writing. You love your wife you love you sister in law? You don't know what love is.. if love involved cheating emotionally and physically, then this would be a sad, sinful world. even moreso than it already is. I see warm and fuzzy answers here so here's your wake up call. You're being an a**hole and if someone doesn't stop you, you're going to ruin a lot of people.
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reader, xanthic + ♥, writes (10 October 2009):
 I don't know your situation, but if your wife is still alive and well, what would ever make you think doing such a thing is acceptable? It's incredibly sneaky and dishonest.
If you have any interest in staying married, force yourself to get over her sister. No one, especially not god, is going to help you indulge in such selfishness.
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reader, GrimmReality + ♥, writes (10 October 2009):
 Just when you think the full moon is over.....
LMAO! I smell a Troll Post afoot.
Sorry, I don't swing at fastballs.
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reader, Nightingale +, writes (10 October 2009):
 You are so not in love with your wife. Divorce her. Then you can go on and live your life and sleep with whomever you want. I would think that would be better then living such a lie.
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reader, q1605 +, writes (10 October 2009):
If you hear a voice is telling you how to pull it off, it ain't god. He's got better things to do than tell a guy how to take his sis-in-law to bed. If you are in bed when you hear it, take a broom and run it up and under and see what you flush out. Or better yet saw the legs off ala' Uncle Phil. You didn't say if your wife is alive or her husband is dead. Let this show have it's run in the theater of your mind.
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