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How do I let my sick Dad know I've forgiven him for cheating on my Mom?

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Question - (28 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2009)
A female Philippines age 26-29, *onfused... writes:

um...hello i need your help

my dad and mom divorced because of my dad's cheating, but now he is suffering because he has poor health, he thinks i'm angry at him, but the truth is i can't find the courage to tell him i've forgiven him a long time ago.

i feel guilty please help me...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009):

Hey confused,

I think you should talk to your dad, if you feel yourself not being able to say it in words then write it on a letter and hand it to him. Let him know that you do love him and although what he did hurt you that you have forgiven him for it. That you just haven't told him because you felt bad about what's going on.

Hope I helped some and good luck!

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A male reader, Islander United States +, writes (28 February 2009):

Islander agony auntwell i wonder if i could talk to you in filipino 'cause im half but speaks the language but anyways best things is to go up to your dad and tell him that you have already forgiven him for the thing that he had done. in some ways you are still lucky 'cause you still have your dad. me i las saw my dad when i turned 5 years old. so better yet just go up to him right now and tell him that you have forgiven him 'cause if you dont, probobly one day you'll wake up and he is no longer alive and neer get to say the things that you wanted to say to him.(xenxa na kung medyo detailed advice ko sayo but i hope you will find the courage soon enough.) good luck.

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