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writes:I have been with Husband for 14 years, 2 years ago we separated for a little over a year by his choice. During that time I began to see another man since my husband was certain he didn't want to continue our relationship.We (he) decided we wanted to stay together so I stopped seeing the other man and we have been together for the last 9 months. Everything was going good until he asked if I had sex with the guy I was seeing and I replied 'yes'. My husband then began to ask if I liked it, who was better and so on. Of course I told my man that he was better (which he is) and that I really didnt like doing it with the other guy. He then wanted to know why I did not like it and started suggesting to me that the other guy probably had a little one. I ended up telling my husband that the reason I didnt enjoy sex with other guy was because his penis was way too big ad not only uncomfortable most of the time, it was also painful in certain positions.Now he is acting all hurt and sulking wondering if i really enjoyed it rationalizing that I would have continued to do it with the other guy if i didnt like it. How do I get past this and tell him size is not as important as he thinks it is and it also does not make a good lover? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): He is hurt by the fact that you took just few months to start having sex with other man. i feel this bugging him.. nothing else..
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (22 August 2010):
 Well size doesn't always matter to me every woman has her personal preference...but we don't let men on that secret because they would get a huge complex. Like your husband. The penis is a touchy sensitive, which I have no idea why he went down that route pondering when in this case it was better off left unsaid. So I'm guessing this was the truth you told your husband, well now you know you should have told a little white lie in order not to crush his spirit. How to fix it, I would point out that you didn't like it and love him, it's not that he's not big enough that doesn't matter with you it's how you use it. (Your husband isn't small is he?)
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