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*jroller14
writes:How can i get over a bad break up?My bf now ex dumped me over facebook by changing his relationship status into a relationship with another girl! it crushed my heart that he did that and i as balling my eyes out.I was talking to him on facebook yesterday and he told me he never meant to hurt me that he only did it because he was afraid i was gonna dump him that he wasnt thinking thath he still loves me and that i am the greatest thing that has ever happened to his life!I told him earlier that i hate him cuz i was pissed then i told him i dont hate him i hate what he did and that yes i do still love him, and if all this stuff he is telling me true i told him to do something about it.now when i got on facebook this morning he has changed his relationship status to its complicated when he just changed it to in one yesterday.I don't know if thats his way of saying something but he didn't even want any of his stuff he gave me back...not his jackets, jewelry, poems, stuffed animals, etc.I just dont know what i can do anymore can you please help me??!??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): You pick yourself up...You spend time getting to know yourself again, you discover interest that you may have lost cos of this relationship, you love yourself, your avoid as much as you can dwelling on the past(ie dont sit down in a dark room listen to his favourite song and crying, putting ona shirt he left, etc..no no no none of that)....You accept that the relationship is over and you learn the important lessons from the past...In time you will heal and I think for now you should stop communicating with him or keep it to the minimal to give yourself time to heal....With time you will feel better and get over it
Ps: Pls note that when you stop communicating with him , he may be the one starting to communicate a lot..Pls pls pls dont fall for this just dont think there is a possibilty for reconciliation...People act this way cos they like to feel they are missed when they leave you and a bit peed off when they discover you are okay and will do just fine without them...Dont play this as a game to get him back though ...Just move on sweet
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): To be honest, i know this is hard to hear right now but if he couldn't even end the relationship like a man 'face to face' then he's a coward and clearly not worth your time. ALso, if he immediately went into a relationship with another girl that implies he was obviously flirting and discussing getting with her anyway! Some relationships don't work out but even then a decent guy would never end a relationship or start a relationship straight after ending one! He's not even worth your time. Try and keep civil with him but keep away from him as much as you possibly can but say hi and stuff when you bump into him and stuff to show him at least you're not going to mope over a guy like that! Do your hair, wear nice clothes. Show him what he's lost and get yourself back some confidence! But never take him back if he does ask, i'm sure you'll meet a decent guy who's worth your attention soon! Good luck, keep strong and stay away from the rom coms, soppy music and things that remind you of him for now! Go out with your friends and get 'single' by Natasha Bedingfield up on your ipod get the singleton vibes going! You'll soon be over him!
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