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26-29,
*loveyhoo
writes:So im still having the same guy problems as ive had for like a year now. I havent spoken to him in like 2months because he hasnt been answering me. I finally got hold off him the other night when i was drunk, i pretnended i was ringing for someone else, and when he turned round and said he wasnt that person, i asked who he was, then he said his first name, then i was like what and said his first and last name, then he said yeah. Then i was like oh my gosh do you know who this is. and he said yeah then said my name, then i was like oh wow how did you know it was me, he said because i recognise your voice!!Anyway he told me he'd text me back, and after a ocuple of texts he text back saying hello and how are you, then he never replied back.I know i should really get over him, but in a way i dont want to, so what do i do?If your going to tell me to get over him could you atleast help me how too , specially seeing as im not really keen to getting over him at the moment . .thanks guys xx
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (22 February 2011):
 There's no secret way to get over someone otherwise DC and other sites like ours wouldn't exist. It takes time and some of the activities that the below poster mentioned. The key is to keep yourself busy so your mind doesn't wander back to him.
Why keep on chasing a guy who doesn't like you? You're only wasting your time and keeping yourself from finding a guy who does like you and will give you his time of day.
You also have to TRY to get over him. If you don't want to get over him then you're going to be stuck feeling this way and still chasing him. There's no in-between. It's either make an effort to get over him(that means you have to want to get over him) or don't and keep on chasing him making yourself look desperate in the process.
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reader, Captain Ziggy  +, writes (22 February 2011):
 It takes time to get over someone. You have to give it all the time that it takes.
Delete his number from your contact list. Keep busy. Take up new hobbies. Go out with friends a lot. Go shopping, go out to dinner. Just give it time, and keep yourself busy.
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