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26-29,
anonymous
writes:i really want a boyfiend but i don't think i will get one because i don't have any confident. How do i get confidence ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so ur advice helps alot!
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reader, aela +, writes (19 August 2010):
 Do a lot of self examination. It's different for everyone but working to improve yourself, your image, your beliefs and views can make a big impact on who you are and how you are perceived. Remember, you need to get your affirmations from yourself and do not fall into a trap of needing reassurance from other people. You are young and just starting to see that the world consist of more than just your family, so be patient.
Here are some things that I think could help: Read some self help books (age appropriate to relate to your life now), pray for guidance, find strength in God and your world around you, get involved in things that interest you, meditate and pray, think good thoughts always, get in shape and start working out - read about it for knowledge, eat healthy food for energy and for your mind, be the kind of person you want to be with or like - be interesting.
With experience you will gain the confidence you so desire. Focus on being the best you can be! Pray that God will open doors for you and guide you in the right direction.
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 You'r a teenaged girl, lack of confidence is verry comon at your age. You don't need a boy friend to be confident, you need to love youself and know what your good at.
Tips:
-Don't be afraid to look at people in the eyes when you talk to them
-Smiling at people when you cross them in the school hall ways or on the streets lets them know you are friendly and joyfull and people like that
-Get active in the comunity, and vonlunteering.
-Try to look at the good and positive things about you and in your life. Dont look at what all your friend have that you dont, because you have things that they dont have.
Loving your self is the key to making others love you ;)
PS: YOUR YOUNG HAVE FUN !! =D
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