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writes:hello everyone.Im 24. Im what you consider a female to male transgender. i started my transition in 2007/ though i am not fully male technically. ive only had top surgery and i Dont plan on going on Testosterone. mainly cause my voice is already low and raspy enough. and I dont need body hair ( i have an ocd with this) well basically the reason Im writing this is because I havent had a real relationship in at least a year and a half. its very difficult to find a girl who can accept me for who I am. many people or other trans FTM may consider this being adrogynous. I honestly dont label myself as this but do feel this way many times. I consider myself a hetero man but at the same im still stuck as butch dyke. but every stranger i meet knows Im a male. Im still just battling everyday with being comfortable in my own body. anyway Im just rambling now. I wish I could just find a girlfriend though.:p Reply to this Question
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reader, JAMESINBLACK +, writes (11 February 2011):
JAMESINBLACK is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthansk for the replies guys. i appreciate the honesty!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (9 February 2011):
 maybe you need to seek out lesbians because if you are not on testosterone, and you have female genetalia then that is a far stretch from what many women look for in a man. this doesn't mean you can't have a relationship with a woman, or that you need to change yourself any more. if you identify as male gender then look for a lesbian who is into very masculine women.
be realistic you have to make the most of who you are- and go for the girls that you can tell are into you
good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): Good luck with everything. I think when you finally feel happy and confident in your own self and you exude such confidence, it will be then that you will attract someone nice. Confidence in one's self is the biggest attraction between people. I wish you all the best.
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