A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I cant bring myself to tell my partner i don't want to be with him because of how he makes me feel that heONE: only is with me until he finds someone better e.g he would say things about other girls that lead to i would just leave you if she asked; this happened to what seemed like every girl he saw. Now this caused me to feel so insecure.TWO: Things he would say to try to change the way i look for example he once were like why don't you go put some makeup on. I wonder what you would look like with makeup you would be stunning etcTHIRD: I feel like he is only after sex. for example he would come round to mine come upstairs and be well trying to have sex with me all the time. The problem with this is that we have never had a prop a conversation well we don't but he would with other people and my friends.As well as if i wont be in the mood he would get angry and if i am like stop he would do something and be like or sorry i did it by accident,I have been trying to tell him but for some reason i can't i just need advice on how to tell him and what to say
View related questions:
in the mood, insecure Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (3 December 2015):
 A great deal of how to deal with breaking up with him has to do with his level of violence. You wrote: "he would get angry and if i am like stop he would do something and be like or sorry i did it by accident" which suggests to me that he's used force to coerce you to having sex when you really didn't want to.
Are you afraid of him and how he might react?
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2015): This ugly creature is not a man, he is an animal. You clearly have low self esteem. Get out of the relationship. If you feel he may harm you contact Women's Aid for a place to stay.
Break off with him by phone or letter as it sounds if you do it face to face, he may harm you. Once you are out of the relationship get some counselling and see if you can identify why you allowed him to treat you so mean.
...............................
|
