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26-29,
*arissalover1
writes:My boyfriend wants to go to university that is about 4 hours or so away, and I don't know how to deal with it!!! I have jealousy issuses and I am easily depressed so I don't know how well I will deal with this. I new ways of copeing with that far that he will be gone. Any ideas?
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reader, Staceily  +, writes (12 November 2012):
 Unfortunately it will take him actually leaving before you can come up with ways to cope. Keeping busy is always a good thing to do, it keeps your mind off of the sadness of him being away. Keep busy with friends or family, find a new hobby, immerse yourself in school or work. Make sure you set a certain time a day you will be able to Skype or call each other, you can look forward to that when you feel down and miss him. It will hurt really badly at first I won't lie. Over time you get used to it, you fall into schedules and your own life and become accustomed to the new way things are, that's how you will get passed missing him so much. The jealousy issue will be more difficult. You may fight a lot due to your insecurity but it's nothing you can plan for right now because it's in the future, you will have to handle it as it comes. Insecurity and long distance don't mix well though.
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reader, Larissalover1 +, writes (12 November 2012):
Larissalover1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm sorry, did I say I was tellin him I was sad he is going? I'm trying not to be selfish! I want him to go, but I'm so scared he will find somebody else. I'm not perfect, nor have I ever been. I'm trying to make him going away easier for both of us and I'm looking for a way to do just that. If you don't have a decent answer for my question,
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2012): "I new ways of copeing with that far that he will be gone. Any ideas?"Why not stop selfishly thinking about yourself and be happy for your boyfriend, who strictly due to his own intelligence and hard work has the opportunity to fulfill his goals, ambitions, and dreams by attending the distant university of his choice.
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