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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok so here's the story. I've been in love with a female friend for the longest time. Just until recently she tells me that she likes me too but not just as a friend. She says that she wishes that they were more guys like me and that I was amazing and that I'm very special to her. We flirt all the time. We cuddle alot. I always romance her with my words. I truly love her with all my heart. We both feel really good spending time with each other we always laugh and have a good time. She even told me that we would make a good couple. Now here's the catch... She told me that she has relationship anxiety since she has had bad experiences in the past and is afraid of getting hurt and hurting someone else but as of right she got with another guy who she use to date in the past but she told me she doesn't even know where it's going so it's not serious. She's very confused and so am I. I'm so crazy about this girl. But I don't know I should do. I want to become more than friends. And I know she likes me also. We've been friends for such a long time that we pretty much have all the requirements that a relationship should have to make it successful.So how do I convince her to ditch the guy she recently started seeing and to let her know that everything is gonna be ok and that we should get give it a shot. We definitely don't act as friends and if it wasn't for that guy she recently started seeing I think we could've given a shot. I honestly believe we're perfect for each other. She's just scared of taking it into the next step. But I'm definitely not giving up on her.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (6 May 2011):
 I wouldn't not try and force the issue, honestly. If she really is that into you she should make the obvious action and dump her current BF.
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