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writes:So ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he's currently on a lads holiday to magalluf. I recieved a text of 2 images from facebook where he is calling a girl who he's slept with hun and putting kisses on the end of the messages. She's the type of girl that chases after other peoples boyfriends. I need advice on how to confront him without sounding childish.
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reader, Angel S +, writes (18 July 2012):
 Yes! Sounds like a sensible solution, let me know how you get on.
Xo xo
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reader, Love. +, writes (18 July 2012):
Love. is verified as being by the original poster of the question Angel S
I keep thinking it probably is nothing but even if it is I'm still going to tell him that it hurt or upset me so that he doesn't do it again. Thanks for the advice though!
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reader, Angel S +, writes (18 July 2012):
Your welcome.
Well its a tricky situation especially when you don't know whats going on but for now its best to give him the benefit of the doubt because it might all just be friendly chat and you know how defensive guys can be.
Again I hope everything works out for you honey!
Xo xo
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reader, Love. +, writes (18 July 2012):
Love. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionKarlos5021
I'm not sure of when she slept with him because it was before I knew him, but she did sleep with my ex after we broke up. I don't want to come across as though I'm totally blowing things out of proportion. I plan on confronting him but not nastily, only thing is I have to wait 6 days which is torturing me!
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reader, Love. +, writes (18 July 2012):
Love. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Angel S
Thanks that's what I was planning on doing, it's just the people around me are saying that he'll just say that or whatever, and make me look like a mug or something. I do trust him to a point but the people around me are making me doubt it more than I am
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2012): Did he sleep with her whilst he's been on holiday...or before the holiday?
Just dump him if he's cheated on you, or if he hasn't just ask him to have a bit of respect and keep his contact with her to a minimum and not to rub it in your face by putting pictures up and writing over friendly comments to her. He wouldn't like it if you was on a girls holiday and a guy was there you slept with and you were being friendly with.
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reader, Angel S +, writes (18 July 2012):
Hi,
Your not being childish by worrying about this, your boyfriend is of 4 months so the relationship is still fresh, I am hoping that you both trust each other and are commited to each other then in this case you will hae nothing to worry about. Hoepfully your boyfriend is just friends with this girl and if she was to progress further he would remind her that he was in a relationship.
At the moment all you can do is wait till he gets home so you can have proper conversation in person and just confront him about it, ask him if you ahve got anything to worry about with this other girl and if he says no and you trust him then you can forget about the whole matter.
I hope this is all just a misunderstanding, good luck!
Xo xo
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