How do I break up with boyfriend of 7 years who isn't good to me?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What is the first step that need to do when you decided to breakup with your 7 years boyfriend when you situation is bad like no work means no money,no house.i feel i need to decide to split with my boyfiend bec i no feel it will work.were fighting all the time yelling each other he hit me more than 3 times.i no gain anything,i found my self after 7 years totally different from the first day we met.i dont feel secure with him.he is to confronting to people when angry or not,someti es its embarassing on the shops or in the house of our friend.he dont like my family and i umderstand but i cant take that he talk bad about my family and insult them.he cant speak the basic languge after 7 years i have to translate and talk between all the transactions and talking,its hard bec he easy cqomplain and unsatisfied,he busy compaired manythings on his country where hecame from but he dont understand thathe is in the philippines he need to adopt und understand, iam not maybe not very good in house keeping but i do colking all the time,i sometimes clean and wash clothes.sometimes he do washing his clothes and we go market together,he dont eat same like me.he is more difficult in eating and that i understand,i dont know if he even realize that its not so easy to cook for someone that have different type of taste so i do put effort bec i feel its my job and i do it for him.i guest i was very usefull for him as a foriegner alone in philippines .,i feel i was not so bad.my world spin on him i have no outside life.i know im not perfect but i no want to be not good enough for a man my whole life.i want someone who accept me.

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