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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:what do u do when u dont wanna hang out with the group of people you hang out with because your 100 percent sure that they are talking about you..they smoke but i dont. all i do is drink with them never once tried smokin and because they smoke and i hang out with them its gonna look like i smoke but i dont.. we all grew up together and i feel like i outgrew them or i just dont wanna be around them.. how do i avoid them without comin off as mean? by the way i am a female and im talkin about males that i hang out with im sure they have all spoke about me in some sexual way when im not around cause of certain comments they make all i have done is party with them i havent slept with any of them it just bugs me cause one of the guys in the of the group i really like him and he used to like me but im 100 percent sure he has spoken about me.. how do i avoid them? Reply to this Question
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (2 November 2009):
 Part of growing up is changing as a person.
You may find that friends you have grown up with change and you have nothing in common.
Trust your instincts.
If you feel your friends are talking about you then they most probably are.
The best way to find out is you could have a polite word with them and ask them what they have been saying.
You can also ask them to respect you.
If you have made your mind up to avoid them then stop meeting up with them, make your excuses.
You deserve to be respected by all your friends so try talking to them all first and if that does not work -pull away totally.
Goodluck
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