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writes:This is a super embarrassing question, but here goes: my old girlfriend hada bit of an ass fetish. She used to do things to my bum all the time, and loved it when I did it to her too. Wither her mouth, fingers, sometimes even a dildo. I thought this weird at first but was just happy to be getting laid so went with it. After my own inhibitions relaxed however, I found that I started liking it too. Now this girl is a thing of the past. I want the girls I date now to do this too. In fact, it's kind of a let down having sex without exploring this stuff. My question is how can I get the girls I date to do stuff to my bum? Push their face down there when they r giving me head? Asking is toooooo embarrassing! When is the right tome/ the first date? Brie 100th fate? Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2011): NEVER push anyone's face anywhere while they're being friendly enough to give you head. It's rude and inconsiderate.
As for your main question, you'll need to either mention your kink out loud openly and honestly, or if you really feel like you can't ask, kind of guide your partner(s) in that direction non-verbally. It can be done. Good luck!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (9 November 2011):
 "Hey, I'm really open to a lot of sexual stuff and enjoy some anal play on me! I hope you are turned on by that too!"
Don't push anyone's head into your anus; if you don't have the courage to TALK about it, you don't have the privilege of physically demanding it. Be brave, speak up.
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reader, moon river +, writes (9 November 2011):
 make sure you know them well enough to be able to talk about it, have you thought about trying other sexual things instead of just this bum thing? i think girls would maybe be more open to other 'adventurous' stuff first.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (8 November 2011):
 "Asking is too embarrassing"????
Sorry, you shouldn't be doing anything you're not prepared to talk about. And you definitely should be talking about that stuff before doing it. Wait until you're in a serious, committed relationship, when a discussion of fantasies, squicks, etc. is appropriate and in fact welcome.
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