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How do I approach getting her number or asking her out?

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Question - (6 September 2016) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2016)
A male Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

all of my relationships have come from being around someone for a while before asking them out. such as school, work, gym. how do you go about asking a girl out that may not know you that well?

there is a girl who i see maybe every other week at the grocery store, shes a cashier there and shes always in a good attitude and very pretty.

i go through her line often and always ask how shes doing and have small talk through the few minutes it takes to cash me out. i have no idea if shes into me or even has a boyfriend, how do i approach getting her number or asking her out for coffee/dinner?

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom + , writes (7 September 2016):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntHa ha, Tisha-1 has it spot on! Brilliant answers.

Keep it light and jokey so that there is no embarrassment if she is not in a position to go out with you.

Good luck. Hope she accepts.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2016):

Have a casual conversation with her, make her laugh and smile, then tell her you really would like to get to know her more and ask her to exchange numbers. Make sure you get her number and she gets yours, that way you both have it. Because what if you gave her your number and she took it to be nice and ended up throwing it away? If she says no, maybe she isn't interested

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (7 September 2016):

Tisha-1 agony aunt“Hey, thanks for making grocery shopping something I look forward to. I like your attitude and you are very attractive!

“Let me ask a hypothetical question, if a guy was to ask for your number, a guy who had a lot in common with me, ok, the guy is me, if I asked for you number, would it be possible that you’d give it to me?

“Wait, don’t answer. Here’s my number. Text me the answer.”

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“You are my favorite cashier of all time. If you don’t have a boyfriend, would you be free for coffee or a drink after work this week?”

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