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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend says he loves me and he doesn't want anyone else to have me but him but when his friends try to get with me and flirts with me in front of him he doesn't do anything about it, even if it's a guy that he doesn't know. My last boyfriend would at least say something like "hey step away from my girl?" or "you need to lay off she's mine" I just don't get him, he acts like he doesn't care if anyone makes a move on me... he's just not jealous at all so my question is how come my boyfriend isn't jealous at all?
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 Exactly as below, he just trusts you! I'm exactly the same as him and have had the same issue where girls have wondered why I'm not bothered and it's simple, he trusts that you aren't going to do anything so there is no need to cause a fuss!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (21 November 2007):
 Perhaps your boyfriend (like mine) just really trusts you. Maybe he genuinely believes that you'll fend off these things by yourself or that you'll tactfully tell the men that you're already spoken for.
I'm sure if one of these guys was making you feel uncomfortable with their come-ons - THEN I'll bet your boyfriend would speak up.
Don't worry, darling!
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): You sound like you want him to be jealous- like you won't believe he loves you unless he acts protective. That's not fair.
Maybe he just trusts you.
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