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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have never been able to tell when my boyfriend is having an orgasm during intercourse. The first guy I slept with I could only tell because it burned when he ejaculated and it turned out I was allergic to a protein in his semen. With my current boyfriend I can never tell- is there a reason for this, or a way to fix it? Please help! Thanks
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 Girls never have a problem knowing I'm coming because (1) my penis swells up to a larger size (2) my penis pulsates as I come. There are also the facial expression, breathing, etc.
But there's another reason. I usually stop moving when I come. That means I can enjoy the sensation of coming, and so can my partner.
Ask him to stop thrusting just before he comes and you will be able to feel it so much more clearly. (You can tell him to stop because you want to feel his penis pulsing when he comes.)
HTH
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female
reader, Belladonna +, writes (13 July 2008):
Just ask him. 'Baby, did you come?"
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 Apart from the fact that the semen leaks out of you afterwards?
That is, if there is any semen, for all sorts of reasons the amount produced varies as does the thickness, and if it light and thin it might get mixed up with your own fluids.
Don't you notice him reacting in other ways during orgasm, faster movements or freezing, groaning etc etc?
Also, the penis tends to go flacid after an orgasm.
Oh, and use a condom, that way, you can tell far more easily and you won't be getting an STD from your changing sexual relations.
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