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Was I wrong to leave and what are the odds that my eldest son will change his tune about me?

Q.   50 year old specialed. school teacher. 2 grown sons.And...a extremely verbal abusive, emotional, mental, and sometimes push/shove type of physical abuse. Tired of it. It's affecting my health. My emotional state and self concept has always been ...

A.   19 July 2008: No No NO! You were so right to leave and you should be proud of yourself! Don't let what your son said bring you back to that asshole! If anything, stay further away because there's two of them now! If he changes his opinion or not, that's his ... (read in full...)

I need some advice on the girl on top position! Any tricks I should know?

Q.   Just wondering how a girl should move when on top during sex, I feel like i'm not very good, even though my boyfriend tells me I am. Is there any tricks to it? different ways of thrusting or positioning to make it easier for me, I have trouble ...

A.   19 July 2008: Well, if you're having issues keeping rhythm, try listening to music and follow the beat. And trust your partner, if he says you're good, then you are.... (read in full...)

I think I have an STD. What do I do?

Q.   I have had sex several times with my boyfriend, i know he has had several sexual partners in the past. I am now experiencing slightly odd things, very very mild bleeding and the constant feeling i need the toilet. I'm worried, are these typical ...

A.   18 July 2008: I think the others are right, probably UTI. Does it burn down there? After I lost my virginity, I had this problem. The way to solve it is to run a warm water bath and add a cup of Apple Cider Vinegar. Soak until the water cools and do it every day ... (read in full...)

I'm bi and have a boyfriend - if I do stuff with my best friend, does it count as cheating?

Q.   Ok i need some help again! I'm pretty sure i'm Bi, but i have a boy friend who i've been with for a year and 6 months. I have two questions. 1 is how do i go about messing around in bed with one of my best friends? 2 is If i do stuff with my best ...

A.   16 July 2008: It is cheating if you things with your friend. Yes, I understand you have sexual feelings for her, but you're in a relationship. You wouldn't do these things with a boy, don't do them with a girl. And I do understand. I'm bisexual, so I know how... (read in full...)

He hasn't asked me anything about my life and my family, but he talks about his. Is that weird?

Q.   I am 36 yrs old and I am going through a divorce after 18 yrs. Met a new guy and went on a date. Date went great and he has called every day since. I am concerned, he talks about his life and family etc. but has not asked me anything about mine. ...

A.   16 July 2008: Maybe he feels that it would be prying to ask you things and is waiting for you to talk freely as he does.... (read in full...)

I uploaded sexy videos of my girlfriend's to the Internet, where do I stand legally now?

Q.   my girlfriend made some sexy vids for me and sent them 2 my email while i was working away , months later we split after i found out she was cheating and in the heat of the moment uploaded them to internet . she found out and has said she is going ...

A.   16 July 2008: I can not believe that CERTAIN people on here are telling you how to escape the heat. What you did was petty and wrong and you deserve to be punished for it.... (read in full...)

My curvy Goddess is trying to slim down! How can I tell her I like her the way she is?

Q.   my girlfriend and i have been together for about 6 months and she is the largest girl that i have ever dated (shes about 5feet 6 inches and about 180 pounds. before her i only liked women with slim bodies but found myself so attracted to her curvy ...

A.   13 July 2008: Its her body, hun. If she wants to slim down, that's her decision to make. However, I do think its VERY sweet and you love her so much the way she is. Encourage her, but let her know that she doesn't need to change a thing.... (read in full...)

How can I tell when my boyfriend has an orgasm?

Q.   I have never been able to tell when my boyfriend is having an orgasm during intercourse. The first guy I slept with I could only tell because it burned when he ejaculated and it turned out I was allergic to a protein in his semen. With my current ...

A.   13 July 2008: Just ask him. 'Baby, did you come?"... (read in full...)

When will I get my boobs?!

Q.   im 12, nearly 13, im a girl and i have pubes and armpit hair and all of that, but what i wanted to know is when will i start getting boobs? and how will i know im developing? and what age did you have them at? thanks :)...

A.   13 July 2008: I had like, a B cup at most at your age. Don't worry though, they'll stay small until high school and then they'll fill in. I went from a B to a DDD in a years time. Just be patient for that growth spurt.... (read in full...)

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