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writes:Hi I am currently in a relationship and he lives about 40 minutes away from me. We get to see each other about once a week and speak by text quite frequently. We have just booked a trip away together and he tells me he likes me all the time but I get the feeling he is cheating on me. How would I tell with him not living near me? Does anyone have any advice for me?Thanksanonymous
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 I live 2 hours away from my partner he used to live in Sweden while i lived in Ireland. No matter how far away they are some women never find out and some just know when their men act different. You would have to ask yourself is your feeling justified? If he has given you no reason, i would suggest just pushing it to the back of your mind and enjoy your time with him till otherwise. If you let it linger it may harm a relationship that would otherwise blossom.
I dont know if you have ever been hurt like this in the past but that might impead your ability to trust, but if you havent then you need to look at why you feel that way and maybe even talk to him about it. Tell him you feel insecure and you just want assurance.
Good luck
HonningKanin
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reader, 88jane +, writes (31 August 2007):
 what makes you think that he might be cheating on you? what signs (if any ) have you got that this may be the case? in a relationship you need to trust one another so it wouldnt make a difference if he only lived 5 minutes away, if you didnt trust him then the relationship would not work regardless of whether he is cheating!
you sound quite insecure about the relationship, have you been cheated on in the past? has he got a history of cheating??
i would really need to know the answers to these questions before i could really give you advice!
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reader, Butterflyfly +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Hi i've been in a similar situation. just sniffed somehting was dodgy to me and i HAD to test the guy. Have a look at my question 'tested my boyfriend with a mistery admirer... and he's arranged a date with her'. my outcome was painful but it did help me clear the air. all the best. xxx
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