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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I think I lost a great guy, because of my insecurities, also since I've been hurt before in the past.. I've became antisocial too I'm always home when I do go out its hard for me to meet people and make new friends..I wasn't like this I was the funny happy girl, now I put up a wall so I won't get hurt.. This guy seemed really cool he even noticed that I put a wall he asked if can just put it down a little.. But I've been hurt pretty bad that I have trouble trusting people not just guys but everyone.. I really like this guy and I let a month go by with contacting him.. So he eventually gave up too.. I recently contacted 3 weeks ago on facebook he sent me a msg when r we gonna go out again.. I said whenever I have no plans coming up.. He never responded.. I let 2 weeks pass I sent him a msg So when are we gonna hangout and now he won't respond.. I don't know what to do! How can I stop letting my insecurities get in the way of me dating again? And being my old self again? Thanks for the advice and taking the time to read..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): Hey, the first step is to recognise you have a problem, which you have done-great! Now you need some help to change... I'm wondering if there is a reason for you becoming antisocial - are you feeling low? anxious? It might be worth seeing your family doctor to check for things like depression as a starting point. They might also have information on sources of support to help you build up your self-esteem :)
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