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writes:Umm hello, ok lemme just go straight to the point..I have a gf, we've. Been dating for 2 months now.. She is awesome, got no problem at all, or I dnt know if its a problem. I am too clingy or should I say too jealous, when ever she tells me about her ex (just 2 of them) I just get unnecessary angry and pissed..and I've had 7 exs..yh very selfish of me, or when I see her receiving a call from another guy, and so on. I love her so much, and we hope to get married n ve kids together someday. Cos we re both true with college. I just want to know how to get over this clingy feeling, and get over it, I have read a lot of articles in this site, with awesome advices, yet I still can't stop being jealous, or change.
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reader, justaguy71  +, writes (29 December 2012):
Wow, 2 monts is so brief man, but maybe you are truly in love. But you will probably scare her away if you act jealous and clingy, so just stop yourself from doing it. I don't know how you can love some one so much in 2 months. I'm not having a go at you, but two months is like a blink of an eye! It sounds u have fallen for her though, so just take a chill pill and see what happens, I don't think girls like clingy to be honest.
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reader, Pontoon  +, writes (29 December 2012):
Everything that happened with your GF's exes, and yours for that matter, is history and happened before you both met. You cannot get jealous over the past, and in my opinion you should embrace it, for those are the events that contributed to who you both are.
Jealousy and being clingy can be dealt with in therapy if you are not able to deal with them by yourself. Certainly there are going to be problems with the two of you if you intend to have a future together and do nothing to address these issues in a mature manner.
Good luck
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