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writes:I want to spend the night with my boyfriend. I'm 18, he's 19. His parents won't be there. His parents don't care, and they won't tell my parents. My parents know where he lives or i wouldn't have this problem. I have a friend to cover for me but I can't leave my car at her house. Would it be bad to leave my car at wal-mart a town away? Around where I live, people leave cars there with for sale signs. Is this okay? If you have any other suggestions, please tell! Reply to this Question
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reader, summer_love5467 +, writes (22 April 2009):
summer_love5467 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Satindesire,
I apologize for smarting off. I was the one with the attitude, not you.
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reader, summer_love5467 +, writes (15 April 2009):
summer_love5467 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUhm, the only thing my parents pay for is the roof over my head and I'm fixing to pick up more hours at work and will be bye bye come summer so quit smarting off
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Are you really 18? If so the two of you should book a nice hotel and do what you want!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Forgive me for sounding like a prick, but if it was me in that situation, I'd say "stuff my parents let em think what they want" Not trying to sound mean, but it pisses me off when a parent doesn't give their kids a chance to live their own life. Many parents think that children want to live their life, and get offended when they pick their own course, even if it's "outside the box" of normal society.By the way a parent can mean well, but can also only do so much. After all, are you your mother or father? is your mother or father you?I'm sorry I sound so harsh, but I choose my own life and what I like. I refuse to repeat my parent's or anyone else's lives. There's no fun in that. Making a decision, especially a life decision, based on other people might think or say,is hell in itself. when i make a decision about what I want or like, I don't give a flying fuck what anybody else thinks or says.Soooo. What to do in this situation? Stay at your boyfriend's house overnight. I would even park my car there, and put on a bumper sticker that says "sorry mom and dad, it's my life. "have fun!!P.S. Why does being normal suck? because there's NO such thing.
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reader, greeneyes +, writes (14 April 2009):
I'd just go do what you want. Your legal and of age. Tell your parents straight up. They might not agree but there is really nothing they can do.
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reader, cls1990 +, writes (14 April 2009):
 can you not just tell your parents?
if not, why not get the friend who's house your 'staying' at to come & pick you up then drop you at your bf's.
if you leave your car somewhere what are you going to do if your parents drive past & see it?
to be honest i dont think you should lie to them, if they find out they will carry on treating you like a child. Your 18, surely they can manage to give you a little responsibility?
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