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I'm depressed, she doesn't seem to care..

Q.   Hey there, Ive been in this relationship with my girlfriend for 10 months now. But very often im crying, and she does not seem to care, she just keeps hurting my feelings. I must add that I am depressed right now, im trying to seek professiona...

A.   27 April 2009: my bf treats me the same way so i feel your pain you can email me if you want to chat privately... (read in full...)

How can I spend the night with b/f without my parents finding out?

Q.   I want to spend the night with my boyfriend. I'm 18, he's 19. His parents won't be there. His parents don't care, and they won't tell my parents. My parents know where he lives or i wouldn't have this problem. I have a friend to cover for me but I ...

A.   22 April 2009: Satindesire, I apologize for smarting off. I was the one with the attitude, not you.... (read in full...)

I love her but no sex!

Q.   my girlfriend does not want to have sex with me and i love her. what should i do? Is there anything I can do or say to make her change her mind?...

A.   22 April 2009: how long have you been dating?... (read in full...)

I love her but no sex!

Q.   my girlfriend does not want to have sex with me and i love her. what should i do? Is there anything I can do or say to make her change her mind?...

A.   22 April 2009: i started out like this with my bf. He stopped pushing me and I eventuall accepted that it could be wonderful with him, something amazing. One da I looked at him and said I want you...and you know what happened from there...lol. But let me point ou... (read in full...)

I make him miserable and he says after 9 months he's sick of it!

Q.   Someone please help me. I'm afraid of losing him. I love him more than anything in the world, but I make him miserable. He says he is getting tired of it after 9 months. Not me, but the way act sometimes. I flip out when he doesnt text bac...

A.   20 April 2009: I have no reason not to trust him. But I have trst issues. I've been cheated on by every guy i've ever dated. For the meantime, should I just take a breath and give him some space for awhile till he cools down?... (read in full...)

How do I get my parents to quit controlling me?

Q.   How do I get my parents to quit controlling me? Do not get me wrong, I do enjoy attending the Sunday school (I teach toddlers) and the worship service. But I hate going at night... it drives me crazy. I hate doing the same routine every Su...

A.   20 April 2009: Don't get me wrong, i do belienve in God. But I believe that we should worship in the way that is best for us.... (read in full...)

Do I sit this one out?

Q.   Help. I do not know what to do. I am due to go on a day field trip. I am looking forward to it. Trouble is my ex is going to with his new girlfriend. I think I am ok with it and will ignore him but people have warned me it could be awkward, in fact ...

A.   19 April 2009: Go on the field trip. You obviously don't give a crap about him. If he or the other girl have issues with it, that's their problem not yours. Just ignore them and heve fun.. Fnjoy your trip!!... (read in full...)

Pregnant by my cousin!

Q.   oh God we and my cousin are in love with each other and have been for about a year we started having sex 3 months back he is older than me he is so nice he takes care of me protects me we love each other so much but i just found ...

A.   18 April 2009: you really need to do what army medic says. I'm sorry this happened to you at such a young age but you should not have engaged in this behavior, especially with your cousin. Good luck.... (read in full...)

What is a "rainbow kiss?"

Q.   I'm 13 my boyfriend is 16. We are both non virgins from other relationships. We have had sex and done everything. Finger, BJ, 69, toss off, lick out ect. We were keen to move onto a rainbow kiss he said, I don't know what a rainbow kiss is.. What is ...

A.   18 April 2009: While I think you are a tad young to be doing these things at 13, I'll save my judgements cause, hey, its your life. It may make you into a stronger person but a rainbow kiss is when a guy gives head to a girl while she is having her period, and ... (read in full...)

Pregnant by my cousin!

Q.   oh God we and my cousin are in love with each other and have been for about a year we started having sex 3 months back he is older than me he is so nice he takes care of me protects me we love each other so much but i just found ...

A.   17 April 2009: I'm sorry but that is a little worng. How close of cousind are you? Like is he your 1st cousin or 2nd or what?... (read in full...)

Want to spend the night with boyfriend, what will happen if I leave my car in a parking lot..will it be towed?

Q.   I want to spend the night with my bf, but I don't want any of my family members seeing my car at his house. Would wal-mart or another place of business such as walgreens tow my car if I leave it parked overnight? And I am using protection...

A.   17 April 2009: Lol well i live in the middle of nowheremso there are no taxis lol... (read in full...)

How can I spend the night with b/f without my parents finding out?

Q.   I want to spend the night with my boyfriend. I'm 18, he's 19. His parents won't be there. His parents don't care, and they won't tell my parents. My parents know where he lives or i wouldn't have this problem. I have a friend to cover for me but I ...

A.   15 April 2009: Uhm, the only thing my parents pay for is the roof over my head and I'm fixing to pick up more hours at work and will be bye bye come summer so quit smarting off... (read in full...)

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