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How can I put him at ease?

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Question - (10 September 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So I have a lot of history with this guy at school. We go four years back, but I have had a crush on him way longer.

It got awkward and even though we never went out we kissed. I haven't been in his class for five years and now the sets have been mixed, we are. I didn't expect to sit next to him but I am in one lesson.

I know what he's like and today he was trying not to be awkward but I know what he does when he gets nervous. He sings to himself and hums and doesn't know when to shut up. If I tell him that it doesn't have to be awkward he will pretend he doesn't know what I'm talking about.

How can I tell him? Sorry if this is all a bit jibbery!

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A female reader, Ciar Canada +, writes (11 September 2012):

Ciar agony auntYou put him at ease by not constantly trying to put him at ease. That only highlights his uneasiness. Act normal and eventually he will relax and act normal too. Patience is all you need.

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A female reader, Wow123 United Kingdom +, writes (10 September 2012):

You should try to calm him down, maybe throw in a compliment but not to obviously then he should feel more comfortable around you and definitely know you like him, ask him questions and make him feel part of the conversation, knock him by 'accident' which should give you a short time to look into his eyes and say sorry, Hope this Helps x x x x

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A female reader, Wow123 United Kingdom +, writes (10 September 2012):

You should try to calm him down, maybe throw in a compliment but not to obviously then he should feel more comfortable around you and definitely know you like him, ask him questions and make him feel part of the conversation, knock him by 'accident' which should give you a short time to look into his eyes and say sorry, Hope this Helps x x x x

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