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writes:Hey, I have been dating my new girlfried for about a week or so now, things are going great but I feel a bit tense and worried. Heres why!There's this other lad who kinda likes her but knows we're a item, he said to her when I was not there that he would love to kiss her and would she ever.He went round her house today and I can't stop worrying and feeling tense about things happening. I do trust her but we all have little imaginations in our head of things we don't wanna see.How can I overcome this and know that there's nothing going on behind my back. I know that nothing will, it's just the fact of imagining them.Many thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (14 September 2007):
 If you've only been seeing her for a week, you can do nothing. If she tells you baout him, you can say something like..." oh, some competition"....but laugh it off. Let her know you're not threatened and don't act too jealous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): Well we all have images in our head like that i had the same only a few months ago but you have to focus on what you love about her, i over came my scary thoughts and i am wrond for ever mis trusting my partner and now we are happy!
push the thoughts out of your head and replace them with good ones about her!
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