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*hadowangel
writes:I'm 16 and I'm dating a 25 year old girl and we love each other very much. My mom thinks she is 18 but on my g/f's myspace it says 25. My mom said that if she is 25 she will have my g/f sent to jail. I don't want to break up with her. What can I do to make my mom accept us being together?
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reader, rcn +, writes (28 September 2007):
 If you love her, and respect her you will break it off until you're older. I know you want to be with her, but is it worth your mom sending her to jail? It's not fair to the girl either, and is selfish if you take that chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): It may seem right to you right now but when you get older you will see the whole thing just isn't right at all. At 16 we all think we know what life is all about and we always know what is best, but in reality we just don't. Don't fall out with your mam, just back off and ask your gf to do the same. If in 10 years time you both meet up and you still feel the same, then give it a go then, but, hey, you have the rest of your life ahead of you. Why do you want to get tied down with one gf right now, especially one who is so much older and mature than you.
Sorry mate, but i think you should be out there with your mates and enjoying life, not this serious stuff.
take care
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 September 2007):
 Sorry Dude, I'm with your Mom on this one. There is something very screwy about a grown woman wanting to be with a 16 year old boy. I would protect my son as well. Your Mom is just doing her job. Break up with her, you can look her up in a few years if you are still interested, but I highly doubt you will be.
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reader, AylaJ +, writes (5 September 2007):
You can't do anything your mother is right. Trust me when you get older and if you have a 16 year old daughter the LAST thing you will want is a 25 year old man taking advantage of her.As grown as you feel you are being taken advantage of. The real question isn't how to make your mother accept it but why a 25 year old woman cannot find another MAN to be with and why she wants to be with a boy. You're a teenage boy... I'm sorry for the blunt answer but this is borderline pedophilia.
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