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How can I learn to enjoy swallowing, and also how can I suggest he go down on me more so I'm receiving as much as I'm giving?

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Question - (24 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i really love giving my boyfriend a blowjob, but i've never let him cum in my mouth. i really want to swallow, but even precum makes me gag. is there a quick fix because i really want to do it? also, he doesnt go down on me as much, even straight out of the shower (i always bathe or shower before sex unless it's just one of those "lets go NOW!" moments lol). i LOVE doing the 69 and sucking him while he licks me (which he initiated the last 2 times). how can i suggest he go down on me more, so i'm receiving as much as i'm giving? thank you sooo much!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008):

Girls swallowing is overrated.

It feels great to cum in her mouth just because it's warm and wet and her tongue is usually licking your penis.

But her spitting it out or whatever is fine to me. I don't know why some guys are so into having a girl actually swallow it.

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (24 July 2008):

baddogbj agony auntIf he doesn't go down on you he is missing out on one of life's great pleasures.

In terms of getting him to taste better have him watch what he eats. Reduce coffee and red meat. Avoid garlic and onions. Eat celery and drink pineapple juice.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008):

1. Have him change his diet so it tastes less hideous. It's never going to taste like chocolate, but some taste less nasty than others. What they put in their bodies affects the taste of what comes out.

2. Tell him when it's his turn. And don't give him oral again until he gives it to you. I told my boyfriend he was only going to get one BJ for every time he gave me head. You need to let him know in no uncertain terms you won't put up with his selfishness. The less proactive you are about getting yours, the more you're sending the message to him that it's OK for him not to give his fair share.

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (24 July 2008):

StudentOfLife agony auntHmmm let's see.

The way my ex was showing me that she wanted more was when we were deep kissing, she was taking my hand and showing me exactly where she wanted me to put it.

Or sometimes she would just ask me do to something to her, I didn't mind in the least because I knew she would give me the same treatment.

Don't be afraid to show him what you want in any way that you find suitable. A guy can be with a girl for 50 years and still doesn't know what she really likes because she never told him so. We love to pleasure you but everyone is different and you can't expect us to know what you want.

Hope this help :)

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